She professed to want marriage and kids, desperately.
And why would she stay with him if he doesn’t continue to work that magic that won her?
And when they first met, was she really scanning the room for tall, dark, and handsome, or was she actually looking for married with romance sans responsibility?
Is it because a man who is already taken is more experienced? Is he more desirable because another woman has pre-screened him (while still single men are unknown commodities)?
Ok, so I know many of the people reading this are going to judge me and HATE me and I'm sorry for offending you, but I am only on here to look for guidance and advice.
I am a 40 year-old married white male who has been married to my wife for 12 years (together for 16) and have always been faithful to her but circumstances have forced me to look for a woman on the side. When I first met my wife, she had a voracious appetite for sex and since my drive was also strong we had an amazing sex life right from the beginning of our relationship.